Knowing how to express what you do not wish to do is just as important as conveying positive intentions in a new language.

English conversation : expressing what you don't want to do

In this lesson, we will explore various ways to say what you do not want to do in English, using appropriate words and expressions to communicate your preferences.

Expressing what you don’t want to do:

I don’t want to… – Conveying a negative desire

“I don’t want to” is a simple expression to indicate that you have no desire to do something.

Example:

I don’t want to go out tonight.

I would rather avoid… – Indicating a negative preference

“I would rather avoid” shows that you prefer not to do something.

Example:

I would rather avoid talking about this topic.

I don’t feel like… – Expressing a lack of desire

“I don’t feel like” means that you don’t feel like doing something.

Example:

I don’t feel like cooking tonight.

I’m not in the mood to… – Showing a negative state of mind

“I’m not in the mood to” indicates that you’re not in the right state of mind to do something.

Example:

I’m not in the mood to go shopping.

I don’t wish to… – Stating a negative wish

“I don’t wish to” is used to express that you do not wish to do something.

Example:

I don’t wish to attend this meeting.

Expressing what you don’t want to do more strongly:

I refuse to… – Signifying a categorical refusal

“I refuse to” shows a categorical refusal to do something.

Example:

I refuse to work on weekends.

I won’t tolerate… – Showing intolerance

“I won’t tolerate” means that you won’t accept doing something.

Example:

I won’t tolerate disrespectful behavior.

I can’t stand… – Indicating a strong aversion

“I can’t stand” expresses a strong aversion to something.

Example:

I can’t stand crowded bus rides.

I cannot bring myself to… – Showing strong disagreement

“I cannot bring myself to” means you cannot accept doing something due to a deep disagreement.

Example:

I cannot bring myself to lie to cover up a mistake.

It’s out of the question – Signifying firm opposition

“It’s out of the question” is used to express firm opposition to doing something.

Example:

It’s out of the question for me to do this job.


Expressing what you do not wish to do in English is essential for honest communication and setting your boundaries. Choose the response that best fits your preference and practice regularly to feel more comfortable expressing disagreements or refusals in English. Happy practicing!

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